Summer is almost here and summer love is on the brink of blooming. The question is, will it last beyond the hot, lazy summer days and nights, or dissipate as the temperature starts to cool off in the Fall? How do you make summer love last? The attraction that brought you together must go beyond the casual meetings and intense moments between you. The chemistry that made you sizzle has to be stronger than the tendency to fizzle as the summer winds down. What is it that you want in the relationship? Some people go into the summer knowing that it will be a short, hot affair with no strings attached. Others hope the let-your-hair-down relaxed atmosphere of the summer months will allow for a natural seque into the next season. Summer love breeds wonderful stories of romance and sexuality. We welcome you to share your summer love stories here.

I watched American Idol last night as my favorite Jordin Sparks took the title away from the beat box guy, Blake. I actually found myself applauding as Jordin displayed a phenomenal talent. I felt love and admiration for this 17-year old soon-to-be superstar. To catch a break at such a young age is a gift. It was a tough AI season, but Jordin pulled it off with flying colors.

People have a lot of power. One very powerful emotion is LOVE. Expressed properly, love can change the world, create peace and harmony, and build families. Each of us has that spark of love inside of us. Whether we choose to use it by sharing it with another or keeping it all inside makes the difference. The fact alone that you have come to a dating site to look for love and ultimately share your love, is a good beginning to change your world and the world of someone else, thus creating an ever-growing, ever-changing cycle of love.

Have you seen the new ads for Chemistry.com? (parent company: Match.com) They slam eHarmony.com for being too discriminating by pointing out the number of people that eHarmony.com rejects, particularly the gay population. eHarmony.com states that they don’t have the proper psychological testing tools for gay people, thereby rejecting many of the applicants. The ad campaign is a bit heavy-handed, and Chemistry.com is holding no punches. eHarmony.com has entered into the legal arena to fight this battle.

Now I ask you, shouldn’t the business of looking for love be more loving? While the big boys fight it out, lookingforlove.com will continue to offer a new 100% free quality dating site for anyone who is serious about finding love, romance, and relationships.

Using our forum is a great way to express yourself and meet new people. The lookingforlove.com forum is yours to use to do just that. Just click on the Forum button and start sharing your news and views with other members of the site.

Whatever happened to good old-fashioned love letters? The kind you tie up in a ribbon and put away for a later time. In this day and age of fast and furious internet dating sometimes the little romantic things get put aside. It’s important to remember romance and to be romantic. The casual response to a profile may lead to something very special. Take it to the next level and show how much you care. A poem, a flower, a love note…you never know what may come next.

Thought for the day:

Take your time to find love and love will find you.

Online dating has taken dating to a whole new level. There is instant access to people and profiles, photos and videos, and their ideas, beliefs and opinions. People are less inhibited when they are online. You can really find out so much about a person from their initial profile. You will know right away if this is someone of interest to you. That’s what makes online dating the tool to instant gratification. No more blind dates. No more wasted time. You can be selective in your choices. There are so many people looking for love, relationships and commitment. Is there someone out there looking for you?

Check your profile. Keep it neat and clean. Check your spelling. Remember the first impression needs to be attractive to others. You are more than your photo. Your profile reflects who you really are. Have fun. Go ahead and take a risk. Be honest.

Dear Friends:

We are excited about our first couple of weeks online and see a steady growth with new members and profiles. This is exactly where we want to be…available to you to help you find the relationship you have been looking for. We want to be the biggest online dating site. And we can use your help. Invite-a-friend to join or email our link to your friends and family.
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Anyone who is single, or soon to be single, will benefit from lookingforlove.com. We hope that in no time the site will be a big hit, and just think, you helped us get there! Thanks for your continued support, help in reporting spam, and telling others about us. Keep coming back. You never know whose profile you may find.

Spammers and scammers are all over the internet. The only way to stop them is to be forewarned and knowledgeable about what to look for and how to avoid being a victim of a scam. We are all vulnerable if we are not vigilant.

A few rules to keep you safe from fraud:

1. Never give out your personal, financial or demographic information to someone you just met online. This will include personal email addresses, social security numbers, phone numbers, address, and bank account information.

2. Avoid people who appear to have a “sob story” and are asking for money to help them come to the U.S. (or any other country).

3. Avoid all requests for money, this will include money orders, wire transfers, cash, stock transfers.

4. Avoid deals that seem too good to be true.

5. Deal with local people who you can meet in person.

6. Avoid anything that seems like fraud and report it to the webmaster of the site you suspect it on.

lookingforlove, LLC is not involved with any monetary transactions and will not verify or certify its’ members. We are here to offer you the best in online dating in a safe and caring environment.